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Accepted

By Paula Wiseman

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to the praise of the glory of His grace, by which He has made us accepted in the Beloved. Ephesians 1:6

I love the story of the prodigal son. It’s such a deep story with so many layers and applications. For just a moment, focus with me on the end of the story. Imagine being that young man thrust in the middle of the banquet. He was surrounded by family and friends who had known him since he was a kid, but they also knew his story. Everybody there knew what he had done, knew how he had disrespected his father, knew how he had lived his life. They’d heard all the gossip about the immorality, the prostitutes and the partying.

Put yourself in his shoes. How do you feel? Uncomfortable? Ashamed? Undeserving? Afraid of rejection? Would you feel accepted?

Ephesians 1:3-6 contain some of the most mind-blowing truths in Scripture, and it finishes up with God’s grace “by which He made us accepted in the Beloved”. Accepted means highly favored, honored, showered with blessing. Other translations render it “glorious grace he has poured out on us,” “lavished on us,” “freely bestowed.”

As the boy journeyed home, his only concern was how his father would receive him. His father welcomed him joyfully, his heart overflowing with love.

How does our Father receive us? The very same way. Everyone else at the banquet shared the father’s heart and rejoiced with him. Only those outside the banquet resented the grace the father showed the prodigal.

I need to focus on my Father, who accepts me, favors me, showers me with blessing. The people outside the banquet- He’ll deal with them in His wisdom just as the father in the story approached his older son.

When it’s someone else’s banquet, I need to make sure which side of the door I’m on- the rejoicing side or the pouting side.


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Filed Under: Thursday in the Word Tagged With: Ephesians, faith in real life, parables of Jesus

Friday Writing Update

By Paula Wiseman

Two notes on the writing front-
The critique of Contingency is finished and I’ll have the report soon. That should help me formulate the next step in this journey.
Second, the draft of Claire’s book is finished. I have never struggled with a story as much as I did with that one, but it seemed to coalesce as it was winding down. It morphed a little from my original concept, but it was for the better.
Tonight and tomorrow Jon and I are teaching True Love Waits at a retreat in Evansville.
Finally, let me say that traffic has picked up and I truly thank you. It is a tremendous encouragement to me, especially on those days when it feels like I’ve misunderstood God about this whole writing thing.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
I have loved you with an everlasting love… Jeremiah 31:3
heart handsTwo notes on the writing front-
  • The critique of Contingency is finished and I’ll have the report soon. That should help me formulate the next step in this journey.
  • Second, the draft of Claire’s book is finished. I have never struggled with a story as much as I did with that one, but it seemed to coalesce as it was winding down. It morphed a little from my original concept, but it was for the better.
Tonight and tomorrow Jon and I are teaching True Love Waits at a retreat in Evansville.
Finally, let me say that traffic has picked up and I truly thank you. It is a tremendous encouragement to me, especially on those days when it feels like I’ve misunderstood God about this whole writing thing.
Happy Valentine’s Day! Enjoy some time with your sweetie and with the Lover of your soul.
I have loved you with an everlasting love… Jeremiah 31:3
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True Love

By Paula Wiseman

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My husband and I lead True Love Waits retreats. Some of my books take a hard look at the nature of love. Whether between spouses, among family members or friends, genuine love always follows Christ’s example. While I wouldn’t presume to tackle the vast topic of Christ’s love, I hope to provoke some thoughts.

True Love initiates – God chose us without waiting to see how we would respond. If we love like He does, we can boldly and confidently makes the first move. This does not mean we do the asking when it comes to dating. It means we love without waiting for it to be reciprocated. It fact we love even if it is never returned.

True Love risks – God knew that we would reject Him, and He chose to love us anyway. Loving like Jesus means we understands that we may also be rejected.

True Love sacrifices – Jesus Christ sacrificed more for us than we comprehend. However, His sacrifice wasn’t wasted on our selfish aspirations. He sacrificed to redeem us. When we love like Christ, we will pour ourselves into others so that they can be everything God intends for them to be.

True Love commits – Jesus said He would never leave us or forsake us. Never. True Love isn’t shallow or fair-weather. It is forever.

True Love is not a feeling -it is a decision. Feelings change. They are dependent on circumstances, and they are generally self-serving. Real love is not. It stays steady no matter what.

In popular culture, what is called love is more often lust, a selfish, hormonal reaction that is determined to use the other person rather than serve and care for him or her. As a result, we are starved, but suspicious of claims of love. Jesus’s love sounds way too good to be true. We have to live and love others in a way that makes those claims credible.

How do you show love to those around you?

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Study Tip: Go To the Source

By Paula Wiseman

Bible study… Intimidating? Frustrating? Go to the Source.
The Holy Spirit inspired every word written in Scripture.  He is the One who pulls back the curtain revealing new things each time we study Scripture. In fact the Bible itself underscores how necessary the Spirit is for understanding.
1 John 2:27 He teaches us
Isaiah 11:2 He is the source of all wisdom
John 14:26 He will teach us all things and remind us
John 16:13 He guides us into truth
Nehemiah 9:20 God gave the Spirit to instruct us
1 Corinthians 2:10-13 The Spirit searches and reveals the deep things of God, the things only He can know and teach
1 Corinthians 2:14 Learning from the Spirit is the mark of a believer
Seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance as you read and study.  Let this be your prayer. “Open my eyes, that I may see wondrous things from Your Law.”  Psalm 119:18

j0385403Bible study… Intimidating? Frustrating? Go to the Source.

The Holy Spirit inspired every word written in Scripture.  He is the One who pulls back the curtain revealing new things each time we study Scripture. In fact the Bible itself underscores how necessary the Spirit is for understanding.

1 John 2:27 He teaches us

Isaiah 11:2 He is the source of all wisdom

John 14:26 He will teach us all things and remind us

John 16:13 He guides us into truth

Nehemiah 9:20 God gave the Spirit to instruct us

1 Corinthians 2:10-13 The Spirit searches and reveals the deep things of God, the things only He can know and teach

1 Corinthians 2:14 Learning from the Spirit is the mark of a believer

Seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance as you read and study.  Let this be your prayer. “Open my eyes, that I may see wondrous things from Your Law.”  Psalm 119:18

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Filed Under: Study Tip Tuesday Tagged With: 1 Corinthians, 1 John, Holy Spirit, Isaiah, John, Nehemiah

What We Don’t Know About Authenticity

By Paula Wiseman

After a couple of weeks considering what authentic faith is, here’s my summary – we don’t know.
That’s not a cop-out answer. 1 John 3:2 says “Beloved, now we are the children of God; and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be, but we know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is.”
Authentic faith is a humble realization that we have a long way to go, and a lot to learn along the way. Every day and every situation brings the opportunity for a deeper understanding of God and His ways, which we relish. We readily share our insights, rejoice with each other, grieve with and comfort one another. We uphold each other, carry each other to the throne of grace, and lean on each other. All the while we hold on to the hope the assurance that one day we will know, we will understand, we will see.
And we welcome fellow-travelers.

j0438658After a couple of weeks considering what authentic faith is, here’s my summary – we don’t know.

That’s not a cop-out answer. 1 John 3:2 says “Beloved, now we are the children of God; and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be, but we know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is.”

Authentic faith is a humble realization that we have a long way to go, and a lot to learn along the way. Every day and every situation brings the opportunity for a deeper understanding of God and His ways, which we relish. We readily share our insights, rejoice with each other, grieve with and comfort one another. We uphold each other, carry each other to the throne of grace, and lean on each other. All the while we hold on to the hope the assurance that one day we will know, we will understand, we will see.

And we welcome fellow-travelers.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: 1 John, Authenticity Challenge

Post Failure

By Paula Wiseman

Oops! Road SignIt was such a simple thing, and I’d done it dozens of times before… Schedule a blog post. Once it posts, a tweet is generated with a link to the post. Straightforward, uncomplicated… At least in theory.  Yesterday, the post missed its schedule. The tweet however, generated anyway with a link to a post that didn’t exist. And a minute later, another tweet was generated. And again a minute later. And again… for forty-seven minutes. (Something like that… I couldn’t count the  tweets. Frankly didn’t want to count the tweets.)
I disabled the tweets. They didn’t stop. I disabled the WordPress plug-in. The tweets didn’t stop. Finally, I deleted the post. They stopped. How embarrassing!
That was a tough lesson for this perfectionist. I have a pathological aversion to looking stupid. A tweet- the same tweet- every minute for the better part of an hour certainly qualifies as stupid. So in the face of such a techie disaster, I could choose to crawl in a virtual hole, disable my Twitter account and not post for a while… like months. Then come back under an assumed name. That has some appeal. A much more reasonable reaction is to chalk it up as a learning experience, and move on. And here we are.
So near the close of the Authenticity Challenge, how does this apply to my faith? If I am putting forth any effort at all, at some point, I will fail, perhaps spectacularly. When that happens… (And that’s not saying it hasn’t already happened. Because it has.) I need to absorb the lesson and get back to work. I can never outfail God’s grace.
Tomorrow is the last post in this series… Be sure a check back for some parting thoughts. Tuesday’s post will be another study tip.

Oops! Road SignIt was such a simple thing, and I’d done it dozens of times before… Schedule a blog post. Once it posts, a tweet is generated with a link to the post. Straightforward, uncomplicated… At least in theory.  Yesterday, the post missed its schedule. The tweet however, generated anyway with a link to a post that didn’t exist. And a minute later, another tweet was generated. And again a minute later. And again… for forty-seven minutes. (Something like that… I couldn’t count the  tweets. Frankly I didn’t want to count the tweets.)

I disabled the tweets. They didn’t stop. I disabled the WordPress plug-in. The tweets didn’t stop. Finally, I deleted the post. They stopped. How embarrassing!

That was a tough lesson for this perfectionist. I have a pathological aversion to looking stupid. A tweet- the same tweet- every minute for the better part of an hour certainly qualifies as stupid. So in the face of such a techie disaster, I could choose to crawl in a virtual hole, disable my Twitter account and not post for a while… like months. Then come back under an assumed name. I gave that more than a few moments consideration.  A much more reasonable reaction is to chalk it up as a learning experience, and move on. And here we are.

So near the close of the Authenticity Challenge, how does this apply to my faith? If I am putting forth any effort at all, at some point, I will fail, perhaps spectacularly. When that happens… (And that’s not saying it hasn’t already happened. Because it has.) I need to absorb the lesson and get back to work. I can never outfail God’s grace.

Tomorrow is the last post in this series… Be sure a check back for some parting thoughts. Tuesday’s post will be another study tip.

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Authenticity Challenge

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