And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 2 Corinthians 12:9
In a heartfelt letter to his friends at Corinth, Paul opens up in a moment of transparency and vulnerability about his deep frustration with what he calls a “thorn in his flesh”. But more than just a venting session, Paul uses it to tell his friends what Jesus taught him through the experience. (That in itself is a great model worth imitating.) So let’s see what we can draw when God told Paul ‘no’, not just once but three times.
Everyone struggles. Everyone from scholars to casual readers has offered up opinions as to what the thorn might have been. Frankly, I think that detail is left out so we can more readily identify with the struggle itself and apply the lessons given. Everybody wrestles with something that never seems to let up. It is there at every turn, ready to strip away all the progress we’ve made, making each step forward three times harder than it has to be. Paul was a better pastor for his suffering. His church and readers would know that they weren’t failures or weak or outside God’s favor because they struggled.
Grace – It’s not just for salvation. When God told Paul ‘no’, it demonstrates here, once again, the need for and the power of grace in our lives. You may be able to look back at a time in your life and wonder how you got through it. Grace. Even today, you may question how you’re going to go on. Grace. John MacArthur in his commentary on these verses lists several things that sufficient grace enables us to do: “to believe the gospel; to understand and apply the Word to all the issues of life; to overcome sin and temptation; to endure suffering, disappointment, and pain; to obey God; to serve Him effectively; and to worship Him.”
God knows what we need. Paul listed his impressive credentials a couple of times in Acts and in his letters. Pharisee. Scholar. Zealous for the things of God. It would have been easy and natural for him to devise a plan for evangelizing the known world and working tirelessly to carry out that plan. What Paul needed was Christ-reliance far more than self-reliance and this thorn was one way that Jesus moved Paul that direction. In fact, he used all sorts of difficulties to reinforce to the super-achieving apostle that he was not self-reliant. Neither are we. Following Christ is a life of dependence.
No one likes to be told ‘no,’ especially when the request is to ease pain, suffering, and hardships. The truth is, we learn more and we are better testimonies to Christ’s power in our struggles.
Next we’ll finish up this series with a look at the most significant ‘no’ of all.
John MacArthur, MacArthur New Testament Commentary – 2 Corinthians, (Chicago: Moody Press, 2004).