
In the Old Testament and New Testament, we are warned not to harden our hearts. In our current series, we’ve begun considering some cautionary signposts that mean we are on the road to a heart hardened toward God. So far we’ve discussed disobedience, wealth, discontent, and rejecting correction. Another sign is refusing to listen.
What does it mean to refuse to listen?
Of course, listening has nothing to do with our physical hearing. Rather, it is to heed, to take to heart, and in Biblical contexts to obey. So, refusing to listen is an insolent act of defiance toward God. The prophet Zechariah records God’s recounting of Israel’s hardness.
“Thus says the LORD of hosts, Render true judgments, show kindness and mercy to one another, do not oppress the widow, the fatherless, the sojourner, or the poor, and let none of you devise evil against another in your heart.” But they refused to pay attention and turned a stubborn shoulder and stopped their ears that they might not hear. They made their hearts diamond-hard lest they should hear the law and the words that the LORD of hosts had sent by his Spirit through the former prophets. … “and I scattered them with a whirlwind among all the nations that they had not known. Thus the land they left was desolate, so that no one went to and fro, and the pleasant land was made desolate.”
Zechariah 7:9-12,14
How does it produce hardness?
Listening is a spiritual skill. If we do strengthen our spiritual self, the natural self will step into the vacuum. We know that the natural self wants nothing to do with the things of God, and prefers to cater to its own desires. We have to harden our hearts in order to ignore God’s instructions, God’s correction, God’s voice and walk our own path. We can’t do it otherwise. It is a deliberate choice.
For generations, God sent prophets to His people to point out where they had strayed, where they had violated God’s standards. The prophets also instructed the people on the changes they needed to make and encouraged them to get back on track. The response to Jeremiah was typical
“As for the word that you have spoken to us in the name of the LORD, we will not listen to you! But we will certainly do whatever has gone out of our own mouth, to burn incense to the queen of heaven and pour out drink offerings to her, as we have done…”
Jeremiah 44:16-17
How do you soften a heart hardened by a refusal to listen?
Obedience
The Apostle John gives encourages us: Therefore let that abide in you which you heard from the beginning. If what you heard from the beginning abides in you, you also will abide in the Son and in the Father. 1 John 2:24
A relationship with Jesus is marked by listening to and living according the words of Jesus. If we are obedient to Christ, we will have a soft heart
Humility
Jesus told His disciples:
I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing. John 15:5
If we grasp that we can do nothing apart from Christ, we will realize how important it is to listen to His word.
Action
The proof that we have heard and understood is that we act. At the end of the Sermon of the Mount, Jesus says, “Therefore everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them, may be compared to a wise man who built his house on the rock.” Matthew 7:24
It is a mark of wisdom and stability to build our lives on the Word of God. It does no good to hear the words of Christ and walk away unchanged.
Let’s resolve to have a tender listening heart, ready to take whatever action necessary to be conformed to the image of Christ. We owe Him no less.
Next week, one more sign of hardness.