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Posts that reference the book of Proverbs

Resolution: Honor God With Your Relationships

By Paula Wiseman

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It’s a new year. Perhaps you make resolutions. Here’s one more to consider —Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm. Proverbs 13:20
Resolve to honor God with your relationships.

Your family.
Your close friends.
Those you lean on or who lean on you.
Those you listen to or who listen to you.

How do we honor God with those relationships?
Consider the following questions.

Do we connect with others in a way that honors God?
Are we encouraging, kind, gracious?
Do we pray for God to work in the lives of our friends?
Do we help them see His hand in their lives?

Do we apply ourselves to loving others like Christ does?
Or do we distance ourselves from those who don’t conform?
Do we look for opportunities to reach out to those society ignores
Or do we hope someone else will step in?

Do we look for friends who challenge us?
Are we offended when they tell us hard truth?

Are we easily provoked?
Do we look at others with smugness or self-righteousness?
Do we measure ourselves against others
And thank God we’re not like them?

Do we long to mentor and be mentored?
Do we serve without the hope of recognition?
Do we seek peace and justice and reconciliation?

Are our prayers full of intercession?
Or are we more focused on our needs and desires?

Do we look to culture for the definition of friendship or guidance in our families?
Do we surround ourselves with those who strengthen our faith or with those who tear it down?
Do others see the love of Jesus in us and through us?

Resolve to have the kind of love Jesus had, the kind that would “lay down his life for his friends.” John 15:13

Filed Under: Monday Meditations Tagged With: John, Proverbs, Resolutions series

Resolution: Honor God with Your Attitude

By Paula Wiseman

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It’s a new year. Perhaps you make resolutions. Here’s something to consider — A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot. Proverbs 14:30
Resolve to honor God with your attitude

Your attitude.
Your responses.
The things you think.
The things you feel.

How do we honor God with them?
Consider the following questions.

Does the way we think honor God?
Are we peaceful, positive, trusting?
Do we see our situations as an opportunity for God to work?
Are we confident knowing He is in control?

Do we apply ourselves to becoming more like Christ?
Or do we just react?
Do we seize the opportunity to grow through adversity?
Or complain about our lot?

Do we believe an easy life should be a perk of obedience?
Are we offended when things are hard?

Are we easily stressed?
Do we look at others and wish for their lives?
Do we measure ourselves against others
And find we come up short?

Do we long to be somewhere else, doing something else?
Do we feel a sense of accomplishment or frustration?
Do we sleep well and wake up recharged?

Are our prayers full of complaints, worries and demands?
Or are we more focused on praise and thanksgiving?

Have we absorbed the attitude of the culture we live in or the media we consume?
Do we surround ourselves with those who raise our spirits or those who weigh them down?
Do others see the love of Jesus in us and through us?

Resolve to “Adopt the same attitude as that of Christ Jesus.” Philippians 2:5


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Filed Under: Monday Meditations Tagged With: Philippians, Proverbs, Resolutions series

Resolution: Honor God with Your Time

By Paula Wiseman

It’s a new year. Perhaps you make resolutions. Here’s another you may want to add about how you spend your time — Apply yourself to discipline and listen to words of knowledge. Proverbs 23:12

Your time.
Your schedule.
The things you do.
The things you enjoy.

How do we honor God with them?
Consider the following questions.

Does the way we spend our time honor God?
Are we active, serving, studious?
Do we treat each day as a stewardship from God?
As though He has entrusted the hours to us?

Do we apply ourselves to learning more about Him?
Or do we just get by?
Do we seize the opportunity to serve others
Or pursue our own interests?

Do our hobbies help us serve God
Or distract us from Him?

Are we focused on leisure?
Do we fill our schedules with more and more?
How much time do we spend running here and there
Compared to enjoying the presence of God?

Are we exhausted or stressed?
Do we feel a sense of accomplishment or frustration?
Are we frugal or extravagant?

Are we committed to growing as believers?
Are we looking for opportunities?
Do we spend time with those who can help us grow?

Is carrying out His commission a priority?
Do we include it when we set our goals?
Do we make realizing our call a priority?

Resolve to “work the works of him who sent [you] while it is day; night is coming, when no one can work. (John 9:4)

Filed Under: Monday Meditations Tagged With: Proverbs, Resolutions series

Resolution: Honor God With Your Possessions

By Paula Wiseman

It’s a new year. Perhaps you make resolutions. Here’s one you may want to add — Honor the Lord with your possessions and with the first produce of your entire harvest; Proverbs 3:9

Your possessions.
Your wealth.
The things you have.
The things you earn.

How do we honor God with them?
Consider the following questions.

Does our work honor God?
Are we diligent, honest, and dependable?
Do we work as though God were our supervisor?
As though He would give us our evaluation?

Does our work ethic set us apart?
Or do we just get by?
Is our job an opportunity to serve others
Or further our interests?

Do our possessions help us serve God
Or distract us from Him?

Are we focused on acquisition?
Do we need more and more space to hold it?
How much time do we spend caring for things
Compared to caring for others?

Are we generous or tight?
Do we save or does money run through our fingers?
Are we frugal or extravagant?

Where do we do business?
Where do we invest?
Whom and what do we support?

Is our faith and security in our retirement?
Is our confidence in the economy?
Do we worry about our debt?

Resolve not to set your “hope on the uncertainty of wealth, but on God, who richly provides us with all things to enjoy.” 1 Timothy 6:17

Filed Under: Monday Meditations Tagged With: Proverbs, Resolutions series

Into the Wilderness: Instruction

By Paula

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Apply your heart to instruction, And your ears to words of knowledge. Proverbs 23:12

We continue our study of the wilderness in Scripture. We’ve seen it is a place of wandering. But it is also a place of transition. Last week through Jacob’s story we saw that the restoration of relationships can happen in the wilderness. This week we’ll consider the apostle Paul and his time in the wilderness, a time of personal instruction.

Paul was a rising young star among the Pharisees. He had studied with the most respected rabbi of his day, Gamaliel. He was born a Roman citizen, affording him all the political advantages in his society. Of course all of that changed when he met Jesus. We can read about this encounter in Acts chapter 9 (and Paul retells the story in chapters 22 an 26).

From Acts and Galatians 1, we can piece together what happened next. After preaching the gospel for a short time in Damascus, Paul left for the Arabian desert for three years before he returned to Damascus then headed to Jerusalem. Because neither Luke nor Paul gives us details, that opens the door for a lot of speculation. Some have parsed the original words translated “Arabian desert” and determined that they actually referred to the area of Sinai. That leads them to conclude Paul spent the time in prayer, study and meditation reevaluating his understanding of the Law in light of the gospel. From Paul’s writing in Romans and Galatians, it is clear he had a good handle on that, so that’s a possibility.

Others believe Paul spent the time in the same three-year training program the other apostles got, receiving personal instruction from Jesus Christ Himself. In Galatians 1:16, Paul says he did not consult or confer with any man, any “flesh and blood.” They point to 1 Corinthians 15:8 as corroborating evidence. This is also a possibility.

No matter how exactly that wilderness instruction time came together or worked itself out, Paul benefited from it and we are still benefiting from it. Besides the deep theological truths Paul explained for us, we can learn from his example.

We need instruction – If the great apostle needed to learn and grow, how much more do we need it? For Paul, it was urgent and compelling enough that he set everything else aside while he learned. We need to be humble enough to receive instruction

Further instruction equips us for our calling – In Acts 9:15, Jesus tells us that Paul was called specially to carry the gospel to Gentiles and kings. But he didn’t embark on that mission until after his time in the wilderness.

The Holy Spirit makes the best teacher – This is not to say that we can’t learn from brothers and sisters who are farther along in their walk than we are. I mean, there wouldn’t be much point in these posts if that were the case. But the very best teacher is the Holy Spirit. Jesus promised He would explain things, guide us into all the truth (John 16:13). Sometimes, we need to get rid of the distractions in our lives and get away to the wilderness where we can listen.

If Jesus personally instructed Paul in Arabia, it wasn’t His first time in the wilderness. Next week, we’ll look at Jesus’s own wilderness experience.

Filed Under: Thursday Theology Tagged With: 1 Corinthians, Acts, Apostle Paul, Galatians, Into the Wilderness series, Proverbs

A Study in Contrasts: Hananiah, Azariah, and Mishael

By Paula

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Hananiah, Azariah, and Mishael responded, But if not, be it known to you, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the golden image that you have set up.” Daniel 3:18

We are continuing our look at contrasts in Scripture marked by the conjunction “but.” Today let’s look at a story we’ve known since preschool. Three young men, who were friends of Daniel, Hananiah, Azariah, and Mishael, were officials in the Babylonian government of King Nebuchadnezzar. They weren’t “children” any more than the “children of Israel” were. They are tremendous examples of courage and faith. That “but” is the high point of their testimony.

As the account begins, the king had erected a giant statue on the plain at Dura. Its dedication was set to be a great celebration and all the government officials from all the provinces were summoned. The program was straightforward. The court musicians would play an anthem which was the cue for all the officials to bow down and worship the statue, and by extension, the king. In short, it was a recognition of the deity of the king.

You know what happens. The young men refuse to bow and they are brought before the king. He gives them another chance. “But if you do not worship, you shall immediately be cast into a burning fiery furnace. And who is the god who will deliver you out of my hands?” (Daniel 3:15) The king asserts he is the most powerful deity around.

The first commandment the LORD gave His people at Sinai was “I am the LORD, your God. You will have no other gods before me.” And the second, “You shall not make any kind of image for yourselves to worship.” Nebuchadnezzar’s statute and the requirement to bow down and worship were clear-cut violations of these first two commandments. These young men resolved to disobey the king rather than Yahweh. It’s easy to skim over that commitment but let’s think about what these guys had been through.

The first Babylonian captivity in 605 BC saw Daniel and his friends taken to a foreign country as prisoners. Their parents are never mentioned and its not unreasonable to think they were murdered by the Babylonians. The goal was to disrupt Jewish society, to induce terror and eventually submission. So the people of God, the ones with the Law, with the priesthood, with the Temple, had seemingly been abandoned by God.

We have to remain faithful to the sovereign God in spite of the events around us.

That’s the first lesson we can take away. We have to remain faithful to the sovereign God in spite of the events around us. So many of the Jews in captivity settled in, adopted as much of Babylonian culture as they could. In fact, after the seventy years of captivity, the majority opted to stay in Babylon rather than return to their homeland. Perhaps they were strengthened by God’s faithfulness to Daniel. But I suspect it was more their own personal commitment to God.

The young men answer the king. Hananiah, Azariah and Mishael answered and said to the king, “O Nebuchadnezzar, we have no need to answer you in this matter. If this be so, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and he will deliver us out of your hand, O king. But if not, be it known to you, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the golden image that you have set up.” Daniel 3:16-18

Being faithful to God doesn’t mean being disrespectful to unbelievers.

Here’s a second lesson. Being faithful to God doesn’t mean being disrespectful to unbelievers. Our current culture is one of rank disrespect to anyone who doesn’t see eye to eye with us on everything. But we don’t have to be like the culture. In fact, Proverbs tells us, “When a man’s ways please the LORD, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.” (16:7) Let’s strive to be that kind of believer.

The king is enraged by Hananiah, Azariah and Mishael’s resolve and they are thrown into a furnace, probably the one used to prepare and refine the metal for the statue. Not only do the men survive but they are joined by a preincarnate Christ.

Sometimes God does not deliver us FROM the fires. His purposes are better served by having us go THROUGH the fire, but when that is the case, HE is there WITH us.

That’s the third critical lesson. Sometimes God does not deliver us FROM the fires. His purposes are better served by having us go THROUGH the fire, but when that is the case, HE is there WITH us. The last words Jesus spoke before He ascended were, “Remember, I am with you always.” (Matthew 28:20)

That promise still holds.

Filed Under: Thursday Theology Tagged With: Daniel, Matthew, Proverbs, Study in Contrasts series

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